118. Why going the extra mile will always be worth it.

Why going the extra mile is always worth it

Going the extra mile: how extra effort in your job, relationships and self-employment makes a difference over time.


More effort: going the extra mile in everyday life

Going the extra mile always pays off, Reza Mehman is absolutely convinced of that. In this episode of Project Mindset, he uses concrete stories from his own life to illustrate why extra effort makes all the difference in the long run. Whether at work, in relationships, as a freelancer, or when networking: those who are willing to invest more than necessary ultimately reap disproportionate rewards. Reza talks about his trip to Dubai for a podcast interview, a day trip to Hamburg for a personal meeting, and the elaborate podcast recording with hip-hop legend Torch at Heidelberg Castle.

Each of these decisions cost time, money, and energy, but paid off many times over. This episode is a passionate plea to leave the easy path and consciously give more. If you want to know exactly why this is the key to success and personal growth, you should read on or listen in now.

Going the extra mile: the episode in brief

In one sentence: Reza Mehman uses personal stories to show that going the extra mile in your job, relationship, and self-employment is always worthwhile because you either achieve your goal or gain valuable experience.

In three sentences: Reza Mehman explains why going the extra mile in all areas of life brings a decisive advantage. He shares three specific experiences: his trip to Dubai for a podcast interview with Saygin Yalcin, a trip to Hamburg for a personal conversation about event planning, and the elaborate podcast recording with Torch at Heidelberg Castle. His conclusion: Those who invest additional energy can only gain, either through achieving their goals or through valuable lessons learned.

In five sentences: In episode 118 of Project Mindset, Reza Mehman discusses the value of going the extra mile. He describes how a chance encounter at an event later helped him promote his “Dinner at the Castle” event. Using three personal anecdotes, he demonstrates that the extra effort has always paid off: a podcast interview in Dubai, a consulting meeting in Hamburg, and an elaborate recording at Heidelberg Castle. Each of these decisions involved considerable effort but led to measurable success and valuable relationships. His message: Investing energy in going the extra mile is never wasted, because you either achieve your goal or gain the experience.

Context: Who, What, Why

Who is speaking: Reza Mehman, host of the Project Mindset podcast, entrepreneur, networker and organizer of the “Dinner im Schloss” event in Heidelberg.

What is it about: Reza shares personal experiences and stories that demonstrate why going the extra mile always pays off in various areas of life. He supports his conviction with concrete examples from his podcast, his event planning, and his network.

Why is this relevant? Many people regularly face the decision of choosing between the easy or the more complicated path. This episode provides authentic real-world examples that demonstrate how the extra effort pays off in the long run, whether through measurable results or personal growth.

Three key questions of the episode:

  • Why is going the extra mile worthwhile in your job, relationships, and self-employment?
  • How can chance encounters and personal meetings make a difference?
  • What do you gain even if going the extra mile doesn’t lead to the desired result?

Table of contents

  1. Introduction – Why going the extra mile is the central theme of this episode
  2. Summary – The core message in one, three, and five sentences
  3. context – Who is speaking, what is it about and why is it relevant
  4. Topics and classification – An overview of the most important topics
  5. Key messages – The central messages of the episode
  6. Frequently Asked Questions – Answers to the most important questions on the topic
  7. Highlight quotes – The best quotes from Reza Mehman
  8. Transcript – Full transcript of the episode
  9. Keywords – Relevant search terms
  10. Names and terms – Important people, places and organizations
  11. Quotable passage – Compact for sharing

Topics and classification

1. Going the extra mile as a principle for success

Reza explains why going the extra mile in your job, relationships, and self-employment pays off in the long run. Going the extra mile isn’t a gamble, but a conscious investment in your future.

Keywords: going the extra mile, success principle, effort pays off

2. Networking and personal encounters

Reza repeatedly emphasizes the difference between digital and personal communication. Those who make the effort of a face-to-face meeting build deeper relationships and rapport that bear fruit in the long run.

Keywords: Networking, personal encounters, relationship building

3. Chance encounters and unexpected opportunities

A chance encounter at an event led to Reza’s event being posted on a major media channel. Such “random” moments show that presence and openness can open new paths.

Keywords: Chance, recognizing opportunities, random encounters

4. Event planning and entrepreneurship

Reza gives insights into the preparation of his event “Dinner in the Castle” in Heidelberg and the challenges involved in organizing it as a non-organizer.

Keywords: Dinner at a castle, event planning, entrepreneurship

5. Mindset and personal growth

The episode’s central message: Even if going the extra mile doesn’t lead to the desired result, you gain valuable experience and personal growth. You can only win or learn.

Keywords: Mindset, personal growth, learning experience

Key messages

  • Going the extra mile is always worthwhile, whether in your job, relationship, or as a self-employed person.
  • Personal meetings create a completely different level of communication than phone calls or video calls.
  • Chance encounters can open up completely new paths in the long term if one is open and present.
  • Anyone who invests energy in something can only win: either they achieve their goal or they gain valuable experience.
  • Reza’s most successful podcast came about through the decision to travel to Dubai in person instead of recording remotely.
  • The background and setting of a conversation significantly influence the quality of the exchange.
  • It is important to question the easy way and consciously choose the more complex path if it offers more potential.
  • Networking works best when you are willing to invest in personal encounters.
  • Even as a non-expert in a field, one can be successful through dedication and a willingness to learn.

Frequently Asked Questions

What does “going the extra mile” mean?

Going the extra mile means going above and beyond and investing additional effort. In the podcast, Reza Mehman describes this as a conscious decision to invest more time, energy, or money in something to achieve better results or build deeper relationships.

Why is going the extra mile always worth it, according to Reza Mehman?

According to Reza Mehman, going the extra mile is worthwhile because you win in any case: either you reach your goal or you gain valuable experience and build relationships. So there is no real loss, only winning or learning.

What examples does Reza give of going the extra mile in the podcast?

Reza cites three concrete examples: Firstly, his trip to Dubai for a podcast interview with Saygin Yalcin; secondly, his trip to Hamburg for a personal conversation about event planning; and thirdly, the elaborate podcast recording with hip-hop legend Torch at Heidelberg Castle.

What is the “Dinner at the Castle” event?

“Dinner at the Castle” is an event organized by Reza Mehman at Heidelberg Castle. It focuses on the theme of sustainability, featuring panel discussions on e-commerce and sustainability, as well as artificial intelligence and sustainability. It took place for the third time in April 2024.

Why does Reza believe that in-person meetings are better than video calls?

Reza explains that face-to-face meetings allow for a completely different level of communication. There’s time for small talk before the actual conversation, building rapport and enabling more open and in-depth discussions than would be possible via video call or telephone.

How can you go the extra mile at work?

In a job, you can go the extra mile by taking on additional tasks, showing more commitment than required, or proactively offering solutions. Reza emphasizes that this effort pays off in the long run through better results, stronger relationships, and new opportunities.

What role does chance play in networking?

Reza demonstrates from his own experience that chance encounters can have enormous consequences. A random meeting at a large event led to his event being posted on a high-reach channel and attracting additional guests from all over Germany.

Was ist Project Mindset?

Project Mindset is Reza Mehman’s podcast, aimed at anyone who believes that with the right mindset, anything is possible. The podcast covers topics such as personal growth, entrepreneurship, networking, and motivation.

Highlight quotes

“Whenever I ran the extra mile at full speed, it was worth it.”

– Reza Mehman

“It’s much easier to talk to each other on a personal level.”

– Reza Mehman

“If you put energy into it, then from my point of view you can only win. Either you achieve your goal or you learn from it.”

– Reza Mehman

“It’s so funny that completely new paths can be forged with such individual, random things.”

– Reza Mehman

“When you meet for the first time, you build a completely different level of communication.”

– Reza Mehman

“This effort is worthwhile in some way, getting to know the person personally, choosing the setting. It will definitely be worth it.”

– Reza Mehman


The full conversation

Hi everyone and welcome to Project Mindset. This channel is for all those who know that with the right mindset, anything is possible. I think I mentioned it in the last few podcast episodes. I’m in the middle of preparations for my upcoming event, Dinner at the Castle. If you don’t know what it’s about, just check out dinnerimschloss.de or my website, projectmindset.de. I’ve linked it there again. The event focuses on sustainability. There will be various panel discussions, including e-commerce and sustainability, and artificial intelligence and sustainability.

This is a really exciting and interesting event. Who would like to come along to Heidelberg Castle on April 23rd? And the funny thing is, before I get to today’s actual topic, about two years ago—I think it was at an event—I met someone completely randomly. It was a huge event, so big and with so many people. And maybe you know how it is when something is too big and there are too many people—it all becomes kind of anonymous again.

One of the few people I met there was a certain gentleman who works in the editorial department at Haufe Sustainability. And funnily enough, he was one of the very few people I met there, completely by chance. He recently posted about my event on the Haufe Sustainability channel. And as a result, a lot of other people contacted me, eager to attend. Some even came from Munich, which I’m very happy about, because Heidelberg is quite a distance from Munich.

Chance encounters and valuable contacts

And what I always find funny in life is these random things that happen, things you couldn’t possibly plan for. And then you meet someone who helps you in some way. In this case, my colleague simply made a kind post on the Haufe Sustainability channel announcing that the event was taking place in Heidelberg Castle. And that’s how other people came from all over Germany. I’m incredibly honored, of course. But what I’m trying to say is, it’s so funny how completely new paths can be forged with such random, individual things.

And new things can happen. Actually, it’s really funny, but that’s what I want to talk about in today’s podcast. You’ve probably heard of the famous extra mile. People often say that in work or something, it’s worth going the extra mile every now and then. And my point today is, I actually believe it’s 100,000 percent worth it. Why all this? Maybe you know how it is: at work, sometimes you get these additional tasks suggested. Hey, you could also do this and that.

Carefully weigh up the additional effort required.

Then the boss comes along and says, “We’ll take care of it.” Yeah, sometimes you might not be so keen. You’re not sure whether you should do the extra work or just say, “This isn’t working at all.” So how are you supposed to decide? Going the extra mile can also apply to relationships, for example, in the sense of saying, “Okay, am I going to invest the extra energy to keep my relationship stable?” or “I’m not feeling so great right now, so I’m just going to chill out a bit.”

As a freelancer, you’re constantly faced with the decision: where do I invest my time right now? Should I put in extra effort for an existing client, or should I just leave things as they are? Should they only get what they paid for, or should I go the extra mile? There are so many different things in life where you can constantly question yourself. Is it worth going the extra mile? In my experience, whenever I’ve gone the extra mile full throttle, it’s been worth it.

Let me give you a few examples, they’re really just random, taken from real life. Now, also in the context of podcasting. I once had the chance to interview the entrepreneur Saigin Yalcin. That was from an earlier podcast episode of mine. He had agreed to it, or rather, it was through his secretary at the time. I was told, “Come to Dubai, we can do a podcast there.” That works out perfectly, let’s do it. And I thought to myself, wow, amazing, I’d really love to talk to him.

Conducting an interview in person

And there’s also the option of doing a remote interview. But this is a pretty cool guest, someone I’d really like to meet in person. So I’m willing to go to all the trouble. I mean, it’s not a short trip between Heidelberg and Dubai. I also knew it would definitely take more than three days, because he’d be flying there soon. He’d spend one night acclimatizing, record the podcast the next day, and then fly back the day after that. The effort is enormous, and the costs are high.

Continued

And how do I even do that? Is it worth it? Or should I just record a remote podcast, for example using Zoom, and then publish it? Anyone who knows me knows that networking is extremely important to me. And after a while, it became clear to me. Yes, I’m going to the trouble just to get to know this person personally. Because you can have a much better conversation on a personal level. A little background information in a moment. If I’m doing a podcast via Zoom, it typically goes like this.

We start a podcast, record the questions, and that’s it. But if you’re there in person, you have a few more minutes up front. You can ask a few questions. Hey, how are you doing? What are you up to? How was your day? And so on and so forth. This means you have a better introduction to the podcast. You establish a personal connection before you even start the actual podcast. And that makes the conversation so much easier. So I went to the trouble. I told my wife I’d be away for a few days and would be back on such and such a date.

What the trip to Dubai achieved

It was, of course, incredibly time-consuming, expensive, and so on and so forth. And lo and behold, it was my most successful podcast to date, in terms of click count. That means if that were extremely important to me, it would be a KPI—a Key Performance Indicator. It shows that this was a good decision on my part. Aside from the click count, I was incredibly happy to finally meet the person in person. So, in retrospect, I’m super glad I made those extra runs.

In a different context, this also has to do with travel. I’m organizing this event in April, and this is the third time it’s been held. And I’m not an event organizer by trade. As you know, I’m involved in everything but organizing events. So, there are a lot of things I have to do or administer. Whether it’s clarifying certain things with the local catering, or getting the panelists on board in some way—getting them on the topic, communicating with all the other guests, preparing the ticketing, and so on and so forth.

It’s especially important to clarify the topic, as this is all new territory for me. A while ago, I had the opportunity to meet someone from Hamburg who’s organizing a fairly large event. He told me we could talk on the phone or I could come by, whichever I preferred. Then I could ask him all the questions I wanted, and he’d answer them. I’m so incredibly grateful for his time. And of course, I’d love to come to Hamburg.

A day trip to Hamburg

You need to know this. Heidelberg to Hamburg is quite a distance. You don’t just drive that far; I think the train journey took about six hours each way, as far as I can remember. Of course, the train was delayed—what else could it be? But six hours each way, so I stayed overnight. The next day we met up, and I was actually able to get a lot of questions answered. It was a completely different atmosphere, of course, instead of talking on the phone or meeting online, being able to ask all my questions in person.

You naturally build mutual rapport. I already liked him before, and now I like him even more. I was able to ask all my questions. And from my perspective, it was totally worth it because I gained completely new insights, because I was able to ask completely different questions, because we interacted with each other in a completely different way than you would on the phone. You have to understand, I’d never even met the person in real life before.

It was always just through LinkedIn, email, and so on. But when you finally meet in person, you build a completely different level of communication. So, going the extra mile is important here too. While the event itself is still to come, from my perspective, it was worth the investment—going there, talking to the person, all the organizational effort, the travel, and so on. It was definitely 100 percent worth it.

The photo with Torch in the castle

I have one last example of going the extra mile. It’s also in the context of podcasts. One of my favorite podcasts is the episode with Torch. You absolutely have to listen to it. It’s truly one of my favorite episodes. I think Torch, the musician, the hip-hop artist, the rapper, is a kind of icon for me. His album has been with me since early childhood. I still listen to it regularly to this day. So he’s a really great artist for me.

Continued

And I remember Torch and I talking on the phone, arranging where to meet, how to do it, and so on. He lives in Zurich now, too. And I said, Torch, it would be so awesome if we could meet at Heidelberg Castle. Because I think you, as someone from Heidelberg, talking about hip-hop at Heidelberg Castle, which has such a beautiful backdrop, would be absolutely amazing. Torch just said, hey, yeah, okay, but we can also make it easier somehow.

We’ll do it online, or we’ll meet somewhere else in person, and so on. I was like, no, that would be really, really great if we could meet there. I’d already arranged it with the restaurant owner at the castle. We did it in his establishment. He asked me, too. So, why all this effort for a podcast? Well, because it’s a perfect fit thematically. And look, after the podcast by Zeiggenialchen, who was in Dubai, this is the second most elaborate podcast, with everything that goes with it.

So, carrying things into the castle and so on and so forth. You can’t park right in front. Lots of construction and so on and so forth. But after the podcast with Zeiggenialchen, this is my second most successful podcast in terms of click count. I really like the content, too. So, interestingly enough, I really believed in it. This effort is worthwhile in some way, getting to know the person personally, for example, choosing the setting. In this case, it will definitely be worth it.

Your own decision to go the extra mile

What I want to tell you today is, if you’re currently considering whether it’s worth investing energy in this one thing you have in mind—be it a new project, a new relationship, or whatever—then, in my view, if you invest energy, you can only gain. Either you achieve your goal, which would be fantastic anyway, or—this might sound a bit cliché—you gain experience. So either way, it’s an absolute win.

And the most important thing for me in this context is that I’m the kind of guy who, in ten years, would say, “Oh man, if only I had… if only… you know how it is. If only I had invested more back then.” Knowing what I know now, I’d be really pissed off at myself if I hadn’t done that podcast with Saige Nyalching or that whole thing with Torch at Heidelberg Castle. Knowing now, of course, that it’s the most successful podcast of all time in terms of click counts, I would have kicked myself, to be honest, if I hadn’t done it.

So, guys, if you’re currently considering putting your energy into something you’ve been pondering for a long time, then do it, definitely do it, go the extra mile, go all in, it can only pay off in the end. Great, guys, that was my little story for today, talk to you again soon, and until then, don’t forget, my Zett is everything.

This transcript was automatically generated using Whisper AI and may contain occasional errors.

Keywords

Tags: extra mile, mindset, networking, personal growth, success, project mindset, Reza Mehman, motivation, entrepreneurship, relationships, effort pays off, dinner at the castle, podcast, self-employment

Names and terms

Reza Mehman, Project Mindset, Saygin Yalcin, Torch, Heidelberg Castle, Dinner at the Castle, Haufe Sustainability, Dubai, Hamburg, Heidelberg, Zurich, Munich, E-commerce, Sustainability, Artificial Intelligence, Hip-hop, KPI, Key Performance Indicator, LinkedIn, Zoom

Quotable passage

Going the extra mile is always worth it, Reza Mehman is convinced.
Whether it was a trip to Dubai for an interview, a day trip to Hamburg for a conversation, or an elaborate recording at Heidelberg Castle: the extra effort has paid off every time.
Those who invest energy can only gain, either by achieving their goal or by gaining valuable experience.
Personal encounters create a level of communication that no video call can replace.
Going the extra mile is not a waste, it’s an investment in your own future.





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